The items in italics are for the moderator, but not meant to actually be read. Welcome Everyone until you start the meeting.
Welcome to SAA Courage to Recover Group, a closed mixed meeting of Sex Addicts Anonymous.
My name is __________ and I'm a Sex Addict and your Moderator for this meeting. (Pause).
This meeting is OPEN to all who have a DESIRE TO STOP THEIR COMPULSIVE SEXUAL BEHAVIORS. THERE IS NO OTHER REQUIREMENT.
To help reduce line noise, please press *6 to mute your phone and Press *6 again to unmute when you would like to share. In this meeting, we do not engage in cross-talk. Cross talk means to interrupt or directly respond to the shares of other members. By group conscious, only the moderator may interrupt a member who is speaking.
Let's begin the meeting with a moment of silence FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL SUFERRING followed by theSERENITY PRAYER. . Pause (together say Serenity Prayer)
OPENING
Would someone please read “What is Sex Addicts Anonymous” from “Our Program” section of “Sex Addicts Anonymous” pamphlet, page 1
Would someone please read the Twelve Steps of Sex Addicts Anonymous from the SAA Green Book, page 21?
Would someone like to read the Tradition of the month and the Twelfth Tradition from the SAA Green Book, page 77?
Would someone like to read the abstinence statement on page 14 and 15 of the Green Book.
Is there anyone at this meeting for the first time? If so, please state your first name and where you are from.Welcome!
It is now time to celebrate milestones in sobriety? Does anyone have a milestone they would like to celebrate?
It is now time for introductions, it is the custom of this group to introduce ourselves by first name only, where we are from and a brief description of how we are feeling (There will be more time later to share in more detail). My name is ____________ I am a sex addict from _____________ and I am feeling _____________.
Note to Moderator: Keep tally of number of people who check in. Use later to calculate time limit for sharing.
Please avoid mentioning the name of a Book, Movie, Treatment Center or the Like, In your share because this can be viewed by some as "promotion”. It is ok, however, to talk about your experiences with these items. It is also safe to speak in “I” statements, as opposed to “you” statements. Feel free to share more specific information after the Unity Prayer when Fellowship begins.
This is an open topic meeting. Is there anyone who has a topic relating to sex addiction or recovery that they would like to discuss today? Pause
If no one suggests a topic, read daily meditation and if someone does, read something about that topic from literature.
The phone line is now open for discussion, please share on the topic or you can check in briefly.
Note to moderator: Divide amount of available share time by number of people on the line to arrive at time limit for shares, but don't go below 2 minutes.
Please limit your share to____________minutes. A spiritual time keeper will say "Time" when your time is up. If you need it, you will have 30 seconds to wrap up your share. "Do we have a volunteer to be the spiritual time keeper?"
Note to moderator: After 30 seconds beyond the time limit thank person for the share and ask: "Who's Next?".
DISCUSSION
NOTE TO MODERATOR: Please begin closing meeting 5 min til.
ANONYMITY
As a gentle reminder for all of us, anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions. What you heard was spoken in confidence and should be treated as confidential. Please keep the things you heard here in the confines of your mind. Carry no gossip and always remember to place principles before personalities.
Can someone please read the “OTTAWA PROMISES” which can be found at www.saatalk.org select Telemeeting Readings
Now is the time for the 7th Tradition. The Seventh Tradition states that "every group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions." You can make donations by check by mailing a check to Telemeeting Intergroup at:
Telemeeting Intergroup
P.O. Box 434015
St. Louis, MO 63143
Or you can donate via PayPal at www.saatalk.org
The Telemeeting Intergroup supports all of the telemeetings, and all excess funds are sent to the SAA ISO office.
ANNOUNCEMENTS
Now is time for announcements: Are there any SAA related announcements? Pause for other announcements
Sponsorship: Would someone like to read the first two paragraphs pertaining to “Sponsorship…. On page 13 of theSAA Green Book:
To obtain a list of telemeeting participants, along with their contact information go to www.saatalk.org, select the contact list tab, fill out and submit the form. The contact list will be sent to your email. If you would like the contact list snail-mailed to you, please contact Conrad C. 520-236-9696 and a copy will be mailed to you by post.
If you would like a list of the readings for this meeting, www.saatalk.org, select telemeeting readings. If you do not have internet access, please contact one of the members of the group to assist you in obtaining the readings.
The business meeting is held on the Last Monday of the month, immediately following the regular meeting.
THANKS TO ALL FOR ALLOWING ME TO BE OF SERVICE!
In closing, please join me in the "Unity Prayer "
Moderator Please note: Prior to the business meeting, open the phone line up for phone numbers
Phone Numbers
The phone can be an important tool during recovery. Everyone is encourage to get phone numbers of individuals whose shares they relate to, to use as part of a support system. Please be sensitive when usin gthe phone and understand sharing your phone number is completely voluntary. The phone line is now open to exchange phone numbers. My name is_______________ I am from _______________ my phone number is _______________ (Time Zone) (shared line/safe voicemail)
You are welcome to stay around for fellowship. For newcomers, now is a goot time to ask questions and make comments. Or if you need to chcek in, now is the time to do so. Are there any questions?
Fellowship
You are welcome to stay around for fellowship. You are also welcome to leave at any time. For newcomers, now is a good time to ask questions and make comments. Or if you need to check in, now is the time to do so. Are there any questions?
SAA Monday Noon Courage to Recover Business Meeting
Welcome to the Monday noon SAA Courage to Recover business meeting.
My name is ______ and I’m a sex addict and your moderator for this meeting.
Would someone please read The Twelve Traditions?
In keeping with our traditions, do we have any old business to discuss?
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Do we have any new business to discuss?
· Trusted servants are needed:
1. Meeting moderator for next month – 30 days suggested sobriety
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Note, any script changes can be submitted via google docs to website@saatalk.org so that the website committee of intergroup can post the updated script to the web.
Please help me close this meeting with the Serenity Prayer.
Revised 06-26-2011
