“SATURDAY MEN’S STEP STUDY TELEMEETING”
SCRIPT
Saturday 1pm PAC
As people join:
Welcome callers as you hear the entry chime. After the meeting starts, use your discretion about doing this. You may want to wait until general introductions.
Ask who has the readings available and make a note of this so you can call on these individuals to read.
The Opening(pg 1 green book)
How it Works(both parts AA Big Book)
12 Steps (page 20-21 green book)
Eleventh Step Prayer (twelve and twelve p.99)
Tradition of the Month (page 77 green book)
Abstinence Statement(page 14-15 green book)
Ottowa Promises(website)
Introduction: Welcome to Saturday Men’s Step Study Telemeeting, a meeting of Sex Addicts Anonymous. My name is___________. I’m a a sex addict and your moderator/secretary for this evening. (pause)
This is a closed, Men’s meeting, open to all those who have a desire to stop their compulsive sexual behaviors. There is no other requirement.
To help reduce line noise, please press *6 to mute your phone when you are not talking and press *6 again to unmet.
Serenity Prayer:
Let’s begin the meeting with a moment of silence for those who are still suffering(pause) followed by the Serenity Prayer. (all together)
Readings:
The readings have all been assigned. I will introduce each and everyone of you.
The Opening:
(Name)______, would you please read “The Opening”?
How It Works:
(Name)_______, would you please read “Our Program”?
The Twelve Steps:
(Name________would you please read the “Twelve Steps”?
The Eleventh Step Prayer:
(Name________, would you please read the “Eleventh Step Prayer”?
Traditions of the Month:
(Name)_______, would you please read “The Tradition of the Month”?
Abstinence Statement:
(Name)_______, would you please read the “Abstinence Statement”?
Thank you (NAME, NAME, NAME, NAME) for helping out with the readings.
Sobriety Birthdays:
This is the time we celebrate sobriety birthdays.
Sobriety is defined as time away from your inner circle.
Are there any sobriety birthdays?
General Introductions:
It is now time for general introductions. If you are comfortable doing so, please indicate your first name and the state you are calling from.
If you are a visitor, feel free to identify yourself as such.
(To organize introductions, consider using a geographical approach, i.e., start on the West Coast and move East.)
Readings:
We read from four books the AA Big Book, SAA Green Book, Hope and Recovery and 12 Steps and 12 Traditions.
The reading today is___________________from____________. If you have the reading and can help out that would be great.
Latecomers:
It is now time for anyone who arrived during the reading to introduce him or herself. Please identify yourself by first name and geographic location only.
Discussion:
The meeting is now open for discussion. You can share about the reading or just get current. To keep the meeting safe, no cross talk, we do not make direct comments about another person’s share or give advice. Please avoid mentioning the name of a book, movie, treatment center or the like in your share because this can be viewed by some as “promotion”. It is ok, however, to talk about your experiences with these items. It is also safe to speak in “I” statements, as opposed to “you” statements. Feel free to share more specific information after the Serenity Prayer when fellowship begins. It is appropriate to reference the reading.
We ask that any newcomer that would like to share be given the opportunity. Our focus is making you feel welcome and acknowledge the courage it took getting here. We will have time in fellowship for you to ask questions and get phone numbers.
We do not put a time limit on shares since this meeting can go out to 1 1/2h. However, please be considerate of others when you are sharing. I will help moderate. Who would like to begin?
Anonymity:
As a gentle reminder for all of us, anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions. What you heard was spoken in confidence and should be treated as confidential. Please keep the things you heard here in the confines of your mind. Carry no gossip and always remember to “place principles before personalities”.
Ottowa Promises:
Our promises have been inspired by our own experiences of recovery and by messages of hope from our fellowship. I would like to ask (Name)_______ to read the Ottowa Promises.
Thank you (Name)_________for reading the promises.
Seventh Tradition:
Now is the time for the 7th tradition. The Seventh Tradition in the 12 & 12 states that “every group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions”. 12 step meetings around the world pass a basket to receive donations that are used to support recovery. Because this activity is not possible in our telemeeting, I would encourage you to consider making a donation to the Telemeeting Intergroup to specifically support these telemeetings. You can make donations by making a check to Telemeeting Intergroup and sending it to
Telemeeting Intergroup
P. O. Box 434015
St. Louis, MO 63143
You can also donate via Pay Pal or major credit cards at www.saatalk.org.
Contact List:
If you would like to obtain a list of telemeeting participants along with their contact information, go to saatalk.org, select the contact list tab, fill out and submit form. The contact list will be sent to your email. If you do not have Internet access the contact list is also available through the mail by calling Conrad S @ 520-236-9696.
ANNOUNCEMENTS: Now is the time for announcements. The first announcement is about sponsorship. I will read the first 2 paragraphs on page 13 of the SAA Green Book:
One of the most vital aspects of the program is sponsorship. A sponsor is a person is a person in the fellowship who acts as a guide to working the program of SAA, a fellow addict you can rely on for support.
Ideally, a sponsor is abstinent from addictive sexual behavior, has worked the steps, and can teach us what he or she has learned from working the program. We can learn from a sponsor’s experience, struggles, successes, and mistakes. Our sponsor can help explain program fundamentals, such as how to define our sexual sobriety. Most importantly, sponsors guide us through The Twelve Steps. If we feel like acting out, we can call our sponsor to talk about it. A sponsor can hold us accountable for our behavior. If we make a commitment to attend a meeting, our sponsor can note whether we got to the meeting or not. Sponsors can tell us if they think we are at risk for relapse. They can suggest when we are not being fully honest with ourselves. Often a sponsor is the person in the fellowship that knows us best.
Are there any other SAA related announcements?
Available at saa-recovery.org are the following:
1 - A list of all scheduled telemeetings
2 - The Outer Circle newsletter
3 - SAA approved literature to purchase
4 - SAA Pamphlets for viewing only, not downloadable
5 - SAA Green Book for downloading to Kindle, etc
OR......
You may simply call 1-800-477-8191 for the same information and literature.
The readings used in this meeting are available at www.saatalk.org.
Thanks to all for allowing me to be of service.
Closing Meeting:
In closing please, join me in a moment of silence (pause) followed by the Serenity Prayer.
Fellowship:
You are welcome to stay around for fellowship.
Now is a good time to ask questions and make comments. You are also welcome to leave at any time. Are there any questions?